Does He...
Want to Leave you?
Hide his affair?
Blame you for everything?
Lie?
Act like a Narcissist?
Drink too much?
Ignore you?
Say mean things?
Behave like a stranger?
Say He Loves You but he's not in love?
Say He is Lost, depressed and unsure?
What do you do...?
The Answer
Connect with Laurie!
We all need a positive friend of support during this time ❤️❤️.
My Promise!
Most wives do not believe it is possible...
Yet if you trust me...
and you listen to me...
If you follow what I teach...
and you do as I suggest...
and you do what I recommend...
and if you let go and understand...
then...
If that man, who once put a ring on your finger and promised you'd be together forever, is still alive and breathing on this planet...
We will get him home!

Stay Straight®
My story is like yours...
Things got weird in 2012. They got crazy in 2013.
That's when he left.
Then I felt like I was going crazy too. Yet I wanted my sane husband home! Not the crazy guy! How do you make that happen?
I was determined! Obsessed? Maybe? Yet the next 4 years I interviewed thousands of people. There were days when I'd share tears with 300 to 500 people! And my testing began, what worked, what didn't. Soon I learned exactly how to unwind this sickening squiggly mess in my own head and Stay Straight®!
It worked! He came back 18 months later! What I did was not easy and I was far from perfect, yet it worked. And it still works.
Maybe like me you started out crying, debating, waffling, or even pushing? So did I. And these MLC men do not let up! Their job is to make you crazy too!
Yet I saw past the lies the enemy whispered to me. And I did NOT quit. Like our US military, I would never give up on my teammate. Instead I grew quietly obsessed at understanding, investigating, navigating and then putting into place every teeny tiny piece of advice I learned about this mess so it would stop, go away and never, ever come back!
Be The Light
You are in a storm.
Your job now is not to be part of that dark, but instead step on solid ground and be the Light for your husband.
Like a lighthouse in a raging storm happening "out there" at sea! you be on the shore: Safe, strong and secure. He was out there lost in the fog, surrounded by darkness and sharks ready to devour him!
It's like watching a train wreck on a track you can see is broken.
Yet....
You can't save him. You can't change him. You can't make him see that what he is doing will bring massive consequences.
You did not arrive on this page by accident.
You want a solution? You found me!
Now it's up to you to:
a) Take a breath,
b) Accept that your were chosen for this insane challenge you never signed up for.
Remember: It is possible to bring him home.
You just have to say "Yes."
Let me hold your hand and show you how.

Is it worth it?
That answer comes from you. How long this takes is up to you. Every Year THOUSANDS of men and women come to Laurie's "Bring Him Home" Educational Vault to gain these Tools. While most give up or quit, many stay AND see the rewards of their efforts: Their spouse returns.
Yes. This won't be easy. Yes. It IS priceless.
What Wives say...❤️❤️
Your insane way of writing my personal thoughts into texts is my favorite thing about you. I thank you for helping me change my family and for bringing him close to me again. I never thought this was possible. Thank you for HOPE again.
SK
England
You told me he would come home when my mom and friends were positive he wouldn't. Now that he's been home (3 years!) I see clearly how you took me there. It was not easy, but it WAS worth it. You would tell me things that would happen before they happened! My H is now engaging, happy and remembering things as if he never left. 😂
If it wasn't for you I'd be divorced, depressed, fat and bitter. You helped me get my miracle! Truly. I can never repay you. I am forever your student. And YOU are going to be forever my coach! xoxox
Kari U
NYC
I am so sorry I didn't trust you from the start. What a dummy. I was nuts. I left my wife and came back 3 times.
Which is why I'm writing here: Listen to this lady Laurie! She knows what she is talking about!! I don't know how! But she knows crap.
I will go to my death bed in awe that I met a real angel here on earth. I hope I get there to meet more. I hope God lets me in heaven. Even after all I did.
You are an angel Laurie.
You never quit on me.
And I have my family back because of you.
Ken
Kansas
Why Work With Me?
I have been through the Hell of "His" Midlife Crisis and I never gave up! In the end I Cracked the Code on What Works to Bring Him Back Home and Restore Your Family!
I believe
in a world where 2 people can come back together! I believe in marriage and love and commitment and that if you want something and are wiling to do good, anything is possible!
Join my program and experience fun, laughter and friendship with other women just like you!
My private helpful supportive community on my fun engaging APP of 289 videos is positive, welcoming and free from judgment!
Plus my workshops and retreats where women bond like soul sisters is the core heartbeat of what I provide!
xoxo,
Can't wait to meet you!
Laurie
(The Midlife Crisis Expert and really cool lady!)
Life is short...don't waste it worrying what he's going to do and when...YOU make the commitment and keep going straight! I'm here to help you! Let's go!
Laurie McDermott
I'm right here! USE me!
Laurie McDermott
My Videos Help
I've created 297 private engaging detailed Videos that teach you every tiny thing you need to know right now!
EVERYTHING! Plus you can ask questions along the way on the private APP community and talk with all the other positive members!
Learn proven words to say or text that work to get him to move or think or feel. Learn what to do, how to do it, what to say, how to say it, how to talk to him. All so you grow confident in how to love yourself, stay sane, feel loved and supported as well as smile during the worst time you will ever have in your entire life.
Yes ❤️
Trust me.
Ready?
Save Your Marriage Now!
This chaos and limbo are not forever.
Join my "Bring Him Home" private video program now to access the most trusted, research-backed information on surviving a midlife crisis and saving your marriage.
Since 2013, I’ve studied every detail of the midlife crisis; interviewing thousands of men and women, analyzing real stories, comparing outcomes, and identifying exactly what works and what doesn’t.
The Wife Expert (me & my team) combines data, lived experience, and proven strategies to help you rebuild trust, stop divorce, and restore lasting unconditional love you only dreamed about!
Using all my data and research, I brought my husband home and proved that what I discovered, truly works. I gathered years of research, interviews, and real-life results and turned them into powerful, engaging step-by-step videos.
Today my “Bring Him Home” Video Library has over 289 videos and is a complete, detailed resource filled with clear, practical answers to every question you have (or will have) about surviving a midlife crisis, healing from infidelity, and saving your marriage.
I can't wait for you to discover how every tool you need to bring your husband—or wife—home, rebuild trust, and transform your relationship is right here for you.
Just wait till your friends or family, who think you should give up, see what happens!
My passion and goal is to help you create the strongest, most loving marriage (and family) you’ve ever had.
Below is a tiny Sample of what's inside...
What You Get...!

Access to Laurie
Talk to Laurie every day if you want! Have her in your back pocket at all times. Lots of options!Access to her personal cell phone to set up and have calls/texting.
The “Bring Him Home” Educational Video Vault!
297 videos of every tiny detail you could ever imagine learning during this time. What to do, what to say, how to act, what to even think as you are saying words Laurie has scripted out for you!
Learn methods and actions that you will use to bring your husband home! And, as students confirm after their husbands return, these lessons are in you and you will use them for the rest of your life.
Group Support Connecting Classes!
This is where you get to talk to everyone live! Hear their stories! Hear their wins! Hear them being coached by Laurie to tweak this or that and on the next call, hear what happened!
Group Calls will become the greatest Television show you ever looked forward to if only to hear how people are doing!
We meet 2 to 4 times a month!
Your job: Come, ask questions, cheerlead on the chat or listen or text with others.
You will become life long friends and I want you to know each other so we learn and grow together! And cheer each other on!
Each class is 60 to 90 minutes where you will feel and get support, help, advice, suggestions. Plus there is Live Coaching!
Each attendee is offered 5 minutes to talk with me, every single class! Raise your hand and you will get you questions solved!
All Group Classes are Positive, Hopeful and filled with insights and Support!
You will leave class feeling confident, motivated and joful!
I post all recordings!
Which you can watch over and over anytime!
Private Community!
The Wife Expert is now on APPLE and GOOGLE PLAY! Please sign up for a membership via my website: TheWifeExpert.com and THEN download the APP. Please. That way I control your info. Not them. Trust me, you want this private and I pay extra for PRIVACY since all the names/celebrities that come to me need privacy as well as those women whose husbands watch their every move. I care about your privacy so please join through my website.
ONCE YOU JOIN: and download the APP, go to the community center and start reading, responding, hearting and posting! I have the most positive group of MLC wives on the planet! Let's keep It that way! I have many channels where you can post "wins" or "dumps" or other categories! It's fun. Meant to give you a smile here and there! xoxox
Access to Talk With Laurie.
The QUAD (4 people, 1 hour)
Join one! Or you can make one of your own with women you want to get to know and hear what Laurie has to say on advice to them! Everyone feels accountable and you all work together!
https://calendly.com/thewifeexpert/the-quad
240 Anytime Minutes
Pay for 4 hours up front at a lower rate and use the time like a meter, Jessa deducts time as we go. Just click the link below to send payment and screen shot the payment and then we can start!
Then anytime you need to talk to me, text me and we can set up a time to talk in the next 5 minutes or later! So fun staying connected to you!
911 Texting: (Day or Monthly)
This is me in your back pocket!
I am a seasoned experienced award winning writer. Let me write responses back to your husband when you are stuck!
Texting with me means instant hope!!!
❤️❤️ Together we will write texts to him that plant massive seeds as well as give you the support you need to keep your head on straight! And get him home Fast!
BEST Value PACK: (Weekly or Monthly)
Combo "Texting/Calling" Pack:
Recorded calls (240 mins) + FREE 24/7 texting! And Access to Call Laurie anytime!
In-Person Home Visit:
You invite me to your home for 48 hours & transform your life fast!
Questions:
"Burner Phone" (on demand)
If you need it, we will talk.
Questions Answered...
Where Can I Watch These Videos?
ANYWHERE!
Best place? Download the The Wife Expert APP to your Phone! computer, TV or IPAD.
I do recommend you watch as much as you can on a computer (to see where I put funny words or photos - to get you to relax and listen ❤️).
That is the Fastest and best way to learn!
How Will These Videos Help Me Get Him Home?
One word: YES!! YES!!! (okay that's 2 words) YES!! (that's 3!!!). Bottom line, YES! I have wives join my videos, never speak to me and email me after 6 months and say, "Thank you! I loved your videos! He's home now and it's because of your videos that I learned what to do. thank you."
If I do ALL the videos will my husband come home?
Yes! YOU are your biggest problem. Over time you will see this!! Do not give up!
If you do listen, stay open, keep your ego and pride far far away and do and say exactly what I suggest, you will have the HIGHEST CHANCE of bringing him home.
I have had so successes. But it's not me. It's YOU! You are the leader - you are the temperature! I've led you to water...I've built the bowl for the water, poured the water into the bowl, and then brought you right to the edge. All you have to do is drink and swallow. Tell me...what will you do?
What can I do to make this Work faster?
7 Ways:
1) Stay Coachable.
2) Be ready to listen.
3) Be ready to learn.
4) Stay full of wonder.
5) Stop hoping...stop wishing...Believe he will return!
6) LEARN everything I teach and practice...on anyone and everyone...and then HIM!
7) DO everything I teach.
Are these Videos Worth The Money? "Price vs Cost"
When the average cost of a divorce is $12,900 or higher? Add on the long term affects to adult children of divorce who have now been witnessed and documented???
Based on this horrific Data, you can not NOT afford to work with me!
Think about it...or let's look at Price vs Cost.
While the "Price" of divorce might look expensive, the 'Cost" of Divorce is immeasurable/and endless. That pain and empty feeling never goes away. Forever.
Imploding your family and creating unnecessary pain on you and every single one of your children.... as the safety and security and identity of family foundation is forever gone?
My tools will help you keep your family together and keep your children from adulting too early.
The priceless tools I teach? You can use in your life forever...at home, with him, with your kids, with your job...? The decision is clear...just don't be stupid acting in fear or ego and punishment. Let go and let God or the universe handle this big problem and get yourself in order her.
OR...Choose divorce!
JUST KIDDING!!
(you never know if people read this stuff...just seeing if you are paying attention!!) xoxo
Can you Travel to My School or Church and Speak?
OH yeah! Of course! Always! I LOVE speaking! I was a comedian for 22 years! I believe in church and school and learning to be our best self!
Churches and groups ask me to speak to inspire and motivate their member to act or do something!
Let's talk! 310-374-7777
Where are FREE videos?
Yes! Plenty!! DOWNLOAD The Wife Expert APP and then watch the welcome videos!
Or
Go to Youtube & subscribe! ALL FREE: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheWifeExpert
Or...
Go to TheWifeExpert.com and READ EVERYTHING!!!
I work so hard for you!
I am here!
Use me!
Your Choice!
❤️❤️

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